Need a man…with…responsibility…

So, I met a boy.  Wait…they don’t like that, do they?  Ok, so, I met a man.  And in meeting this “man” (take a guess why I put that in quotes) I have learned a few things about women (unfortunately, myself included).

So, this “man” has a job.  And a night job.  And lives alone.  Owns his own car.  Goes to church on Sundays.

And I don’t trust him.

Is that sad?  Yea, it is.  I can say it myself.  But, I keep looking around for clues that it’s all an act.  I mean, no real “man” works two jobs without court orders from a judge to pay back child support.  And do men go to Church without their wife and kids? 

And what I’ve learned is that women all think this way.  Not one female that I have mentioned this to has disagreed.  I have gotten comments regarding his behavior as to what signs mean he’s probably not married.  But, we’re all thinking the same.

Why do we do this?  Why is it impossible for women to trust that a man can actually just be responsible on his own?  Is it just because we’re all damaged?  Because we all have been/have a friend who has been/have a friend who knows someone who has been played hard by a man with serious game?  A married man who always forgot his wedding ring and had a secret apartment where he would bring his girlfriends?  A man with a girlfriend who he can’t see during the day, so he tells the other chicks that he works nights?

And sadly, the whole day job/night job thing is something I think about enough to have mentioned it to him.  But, to prevent me from seeming as crazy as I’m sure it could seem, I also asked him if he was a prostitute, stripper, murderer or secret drug dealer.

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